tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post8477893758961288174..comments2024-03-06T03:23:51.904-08:00Comments on Surviving Middle-Aged Widowhood: Wanting And Needing (Ode To A Calendar)Widow in the Middlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-73437161498714138552010-01-08T15:30:23.942-08:002010-01-08T15:30:23.942-08:00Thelma - Your calendars all sound very nice and th...Thelma - Your calendars all sound very nice and they each have a good place in your home. I like the idea of having a joke calendar and the hope that at least you'll have one laugh a day! <br /><br />Kelly - I am so right with you in regard to the grocery shopping. I weigh each and every purchase even to save 30 cents. It is wonderful to hear that you were able to fill your cart today and I really hope you got a few things that will make you smile over these next days (some kind of little treat for yourself). <br /><br />Take care everyone and have a good weekend. I hope all of us devote some time to relax and unwind and just be.Widow in the Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-34002491301645205862010-01-08T15:14:39.258-08:002010-01-08T15:14:39.258-08:00I have to agree that when you go without, once you...I have to agree that when you go without, once you do have a little bit you are so much more grateful and thrifty. I usually do not like grocery shopping but today was the first time in quite some time that I actually had some money to go. It took me twice as long to go through the store because I was aware of each item and it's cost and whether or not I really needed it. I think I got enough to last me until next pay check. It was just such a different experience from the usual grab what you need and go as fast as possible. I truly appreciated each and every item as I put each one away.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08967278323581039367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-24823902389822915642010-01-08T14:42:10.617-08:002010-01-08T14:42:10.617-08:00You asked about my calendars. One, a 365 day one,...You asked about my calendars. One, a 365 day one, was a gift from my daughter. I keep it by my computer. One is a pet one, given to me by a friend; it's in my libary/waiting room. One is from my husband's alumni association at Iowa State. I liked the pictures. It's in what used to be his office and is now where I see a few kids who come to my house for speech therapy. One is cartoons from Brevity. I usually buy a cartoon one every year and keep it in the breakfast room so I have something to laugh at every morning. The last one I bought in Ireland last spring. It's pictures of doors in Dublin and it's on the wall in my study.thelmazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819557846762852247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-10480619508759079742010-01-08T11:58:14.487-08:002010-01-08T11:58:14.487-08:00Cape Cod Kitty - If you are needing to find someth...Cape Cod Kitty - If you are needing to find something right now for a bit of a lift, I hope you find it soon. And let me know what inspired you. Thanks for letting me know that my post resulted in some good.Widow in the Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-70036276963437078522010-01-08T11:53:28.141-08:002010-01-08T11:53:28.141-08:00Your spirit just lifted me right up out of a funk....Your spirit just lifted me right up out of a funk. I could so see myself seeking out a simple item like that and finally finding it. Not really simple when it means so much and will give such lasting gifts and spark creativity.<br />Thank you!MsGrayseahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09904170938207154612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-74299824314530420812010-01-08T10:47:37.665-08:002010-01-08T10:47:37.665-08:00Boo - Your loving and kind words are lifting me up...Boo - Your loving and kind words are lifting me up today! I like how you are showing Cliff that you remember his lessons. What an active and positive way of honoring him!Widow in the Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-88405651062765987282010-01-08T10:39:56.641-08:002010-01-08T10:39:56.641-08:00I used to bring home branded diaries from work (ph...I used to bring home branded diaries from work (pharmaceutical marketing) for Cliff and it made me sad when I was given a couple of them in December, for I shan't use them. Afraid I am your electronic girl! But I understand what you mean, I used to just pick up anything when shopping, and never even checked prices, these days I am more careful and do it to show Cliff, who I know watches me, that I did listen and did learn and do remember. It's become a way of honouring him.<br /><br />I loved this post - the theme: "the simple things" is threaded right through it - it's a good way to remain grounded when everything seems like it's impossible, the simple things, and appreciating them, being grateful for them shows what you are made of.<br /><br />You are special, and it is inspiring. I mean you are an inspiration.Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-78264814987832886762010-01-08T10:29:32.077-08:002010-01-08T10:29:32.077-08:00Thelma - I am glad I'm not the only one! Do y...Thelma - I am glad I'm not the only one! Do you have specific purposes for each and/or do you pick up extras because there are too many to choose from?Widow in the Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-28480414994252896662010-01-08T10:14:17.226-08:002010-01-08T10:14:17.226-08:00I'm with you. I have 5 calendars and a dateboo...I'm with you. I have 5 calendars and a datebook.thelmazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819557846762852247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-57947182961841030122010-01-08T09:20:22.422-08:002010-01-08T09:20:22.422-08:00Jude - Thanks so much for sharing and caring. And...Jude - Thanks so much for sharing and caring. And you are so right. Now when material goods can't be taken for granted, I find that what I do have means so much more. And when I am able to get something new, it is truly valued. I don't think I will ever go back to the way I was when I could buy what I wanted without too much thought. But that is a good thing!Widow in the Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-22211021622913339242010-01-08T08:53:02.344-08:002010-01-08T08:53:02.344-08:00I am soooo glad you got the calendar. You are rig...I am soooo glad you got the calendar. You are right...even in the midst of financial despair, we NEED to make a small purchase for something that will brighten our day. Now you have something that will brighten every day for the next year. <br /><br />I went from living a financially secure life to having nothing--remember the popcorn and milk or pb&j sandwiches for supper every night? Now, I am back to having a little bit and believe me...in the old days I took it all for granted, now I am thriftier and really appreciate everything I get. You will be in that place soon...I just know it. Everything is going to be all right for you!!!Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.com