tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post690114684900391833..comments2024-03-06T03:23:51.904-08:00Comments on Surviving Middle-Aged Widowhood: Life and SolitaireWidow in the Middlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01598249263166943162noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-738048378012755564.post-49886794818894080822009-08-08T09:09:08.355-07:002009-08-08T09:09:08.355-07:00I have spent the last 7 years trying to believe an...I have spent the last 7 years trying to believe and live this concept--because, I have always thought if I just tried harder or was a better person, my life would be perfect--he would love me and not beat me...he would not break=-up with me...etc. I think it has to be a conscious daily thought to remember--sometimes it IS so much better just to bail instead of stressing out over a situation where there is no other solution.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.com